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16 August 2011:

Hi all.. thanks buat smua respon dan komen2 positif nya tentang rencana pernikahan kami ) it means alot for us..

Ok as bonus, we’ll tell u whats going on in these days..

end of april 2011 : he came to my country and start to work here

may 2011: he gave me money for the first time from his first salary here.. (money means “big money” haha)

may- jully 2011: we met everyweekend, dating as usual.. eat and eat..prepare for our wedding, meeting with wedding vendor, went to our wedding hall, check the church, etc, etc.. we also prepare our home.. renovation started the end of may until jully 2011.. and finally i  just found his personality which is i dont like most now.. CEREWET.. aduhhhh dia tuh bawel banget kl soal detail2 rumah, misalnya teralis.. ukuran lubang untuk buka jendela tuh sampe diukur ma dia.. dia mau yg nyaman dan menurut dia yg nyaman itu kl lubangnya lebar 20 cm.. si tukang tralis buatnya dong 13 cm, alhasil dia suru ulang.. dan beneran pas dtg lagi, diukur deh tralisnya ma dia .. omg !! __.__”"

26 jully 2011: dia sakit mata, matanya merah dan mulai bengkak.. tp ga cerita ke gw.. en gw ga ketemu dia jd ga tau..

27 jully 2011: my sister’s bday.. we met and have dinner together.. i met him but i didnt realize about his eye.. abis mata aslinya udah sipit, bengkak kan bikin makin sipit, tp gw ga nyadar kkk __.__”"

29 jully 2011 :

me: ayo nonton harry potter aja

him: sakit mata

me: ??? kenapa sakit

him : ga tau, kemarin sudah ke rumah sakit, tapi masih sakit, swelling..

me: oh gt (sad- karena gagal nonton harry potter)

1 agt-6 agt : ga ketemu dia.. dia sibuk bekerja dan tidak mau mampir ke kos dgn alasan sakit mata.. kudu banyak istirahat.. okelah..dia cerita udah ke beberapa rs di cikarang sampe di jakarta

7 agt: i met him for dinner.. ya bener mata nya makin sipit en merah.. dan dia blg matanya ga membaik, malah makin blur..

8 agt: i forced him to go to famous eye centre in jakarta, to meet the doctor whom my friend recommended.. and we got really BAD NEWS.. the doctor said his cornea has problem.. lasik operation have side effect and there is something inside the lasik surface.. and the doctor gave up about this problem, he suggest to do…..

kornea transplantation…

???!!!!!!!!???!@!##!@#!@#!#!#$!$#$

does anybody know whats that??? transplantasi kornea.. dokter itu bilang kornea cami gw rusak dan harus ditransplantasi dengan donor mata lainnya, otherwise dia akan kehilangan eyesight nya selamanya.. what the hell???!!!! bagai denger petir di siang hari.. cuma berawal dari mata merah, ke dokter di cikarang, bekasi (gw ga mao sebut nama RS nya yah.. nanti ditangkep lagi kaya prita), dan skrg tau2 dibilang kornea nya rusak dan ga bs disembuhin lagiiiii ??!!!!!!@!#!$!

kita berdua shock banget, di mobil gw ampe nangis meluk dia.. dia juga down banget, sedih en pusing banget kayanya, dia lgs nelpon kantor nya dan blg mau plg ke korea hari ini juga..

9 agt: i forced him to go to lasik specialist in jakarta, in famous hospital again..and in this hospital we got really different opinion.. his lasik was OK.. no problem at all.. the problem of blur in his eye itu justru karena terlalu banyak dikasi obat2 yg keras dan ga cocok utk mata dia… jadi saran dr dokter ini, hentikan semua obat.. cm beri artificial tears aja spy jaga tetep ga kering..

we are happy hear his opinion but we can not make sure he is right or not..since the bad news yesterday, he can not believe indonesian eye doctor anymore and he wanna go back to croscheck with korean doctor.. so he called his officemate to order his flight.

we went back to office and at night, he called me and said the boss agreed to send him back to korea for eye treatment but boss suggest him to do training in busan for 3 months before he come back to indonesia..

we have no option.. since the training is his obligation, if he didnt do it now, later company will send him..it just matter of time.. so he called me and ask my opinion.. and finally i agreed.. i think it’s better he go for training now before our wedding day.. so after the wedding, he will trully mine and never leave me anymore.

10 agt 2011: we have farewell party in crab restaurant in kelapa gading kkkk– we ate 2 jumbo crab and 3 big crab with 3 different sauce.. he love lada hitam so much kkkk…

finally.. at 10.00 PM i should say good bye to him at airport.. we just hugged and promise to see each other soon

11 agt 2011 : he arrived well there.. and went to eye hospital in the afternoon.. he called me at night and said his eye is cureable.. no problem at all inside his lasik.. korean doctor gave him medicine for 3 days.. hope it will be better..

12-14 agt 2011 : we called each other and chatting via yahoo mess.. he said his eye become better.. not blur so much like last time.. thanks god !!^^~~

15 nov 2011: he have appointment with eye hospital today…so  i called him because i wanna know whats the doctor say about his eye.. and he said.. the korean doctor told about positive improvement of his eyesight.. he optimist everything will be ok soon.. he should go back to check again nest thursday..

thanks God..

i know that when we trust u, u will do something perfectly..

thank you for your blessing

hikmah yang harus diambil dari cerita di atas adalah: jangan asal percaya ma dokter disini.. coba cari opini dokter lain kl ada dokter yg memvonis sesuatu berbahaya pada diri anda.. krn malpraktek ada dimana2.. mata cm merah, eh dikasi obat kok malah jd blur alias burek.. itu yg bodoh dokter nya kan?? trus mata burek kok langsung disuru transplantasi kornea.. lah ini di korea cm dikasi obat tetes 3 hari sembuh kok… cape deh..

haduwww… gimana bisa import orang asing nih kl keadaan kaya begini.. ckckckckk…

anyway thanks god.. keputusan dia untuk balik ke negara nya memang tepat, dgn gini perasaan gw lega banget!! skrg waktunya siapin rumah dan wedding kami lagi.. 3 months left, sodara2